Marrying The Wrong Guy

I may not have married “The right” guy. But I surely dodged several bullets in pursuit of what I thought at that time was the right guy. After ages of not making the so-called right choices and being utterly stupid with relationships, the whole arranged marriage  undertaking was a comedy of errors. Since I’m takingContinue reading “Marrying The Wrong Guy”

No kids?

Here comes the first installment of my Hyderabad diaries. A place where the odors of biryani are at every nook, multi-cultural festivities, and, of course, everyone loves getting involved in private matters. It’s an absolute business to those of my parents’ generation and many more around mine. While I hate being disrespectful, I have comeContinue reading “No kids?”

My Hyderabad Journal – The Origination.

I had not visited India in two decades when I decided to visit twice the last two years. There are reasons unknown to many, partially to a few, and in entirety to just me. At least, at this point in my life, I am blessed with two that are in closest proximity that give meContinue reading “My Hyderabad Journal – The Origination.”

Tribute to a Wife

(Whose husband never had time for her till the day she died.) In honor of a beautiful life now passedA husband’s time, too fleeting, too fastHe was always absent, distant, and coldBut her love for him never grew oldShe longed for moments, hours, and days,To share her life in countless waysBut moments were like quickContinue reading “Tribute to a Wife”

HOA Presidency – A comical perspective

Being an HOA (Homeowners Association) Board President has been the most challenging vounteer role for me, but it also offered lessons. Here is my take on the comical aspects. No communication is enough. It means no matter what you do, there will be a huge provocation to your competence. Finger pointing is quite normal. So,Continue reading “HOA Presidency – A comical perspective”

Sonu Nigam 2023 US Tour

The Prelude: Sonu Nigam is a legend, an awe-inpiring performer, an astounding singer in both male and female voices, and a sensation that engages the audience like none other. Well, it is redundant for anyone who ever had the opportunity to attend his concert.  As if his time as a performer is not enough, heContinue reading “Sonu Nigam 2023 US Tour”

A Hard Choice – Reputation or Character?

My parents and I were always very clear on the characteristic difference between reputation and character. Despite their advanced age, they never stopped supporting, coaching, and reprimanding me as necessary. There would be many disagreements, but never was I snubbed or deprived of opinion. Nor was I ever not given a seat at the table.Continue reading “A Hard Choice – Reputation or Character?”

I chose to be me!

I read somewhere that the girls who had the messiest time growing up are now healing the planet. And, I celebrate the unexpected goodness that came out of that trauma. It is true that some, like me who evolved from crisis, may have nothing left for anyone to sympathize or preach except to accept theContinue reading “I chose to be me!”

This past weekend!

It is not easy being working professional. Especially when one plays multiple roles in life. Whether be a parent or caretaker. Many times there are not enough hours in a day for self-love or to invest in personal development. And, in times where we are surrounded by toxicity (positive and negative), or are reacting toContinue reading “This past weekend!”

From Disaster to Power

When I first became a manager I had an insatiable urge to be liked by everyone. I was a “Yes” person and struggled to integrate the morale of my teams with the “results oriented” demand. The workplace was becoming hard to manage and I felt like a disaster. My manager then (and now), and mentorsContinue reading “From Disaster to Power”