Monthly Archives: February 2021

I’m often asked why I don’t write in third person which is writing from an outsider point of view, and or by using second person, where I am arbitrarily writing about a ‘you’ and ‘yours’, instead of vilifying my ‘aunts’, ‘uncles’ or ‘cousins’ or ‘relatives’ etc. For those who know me well, I am aContinue reading “Senseless Superstitions”

Yesterday, I had the opportunity to judge a PURE Thinkers Public Speaking Competition along with two other prominent professionals. The topic was, “Stereotyping of Women and why it is wrong.” I am still in awe of the boys and girls who participated. It is amazing to see that at that young age, they exhibited moreContinue reading “Investing in the Future”

I have had the toughest times going through the arranged marriage practices. When I look back now, I wished I had more fun doing blind, speed and regular dates on steroids. Perhaps just for that time, exclusiveness went out the door. I had no time for tenured dating for having already been slotted into theContinue reading “The Age Factor”

We’ve been married nearly a decade and half. It takes a lot from both of us to be not just tolerating each other but trying hard not to kill. Me more than him. And I am not one of those who is able to say that what I have with my husband cannot be expressedContinue reading “Valentine’s Gifts”

In obscure search for your soulI set on a vonage into the worldWho knows what’s in storeWhen a reason to live awaitsThose that hurt are left behindDuty to menage forgotten in timeBlame clouded many great mindsSome did an ode to the vixen tooWho knows what came uponAs I walked into that real existenceIt was neverContinue reading “Real Existence”

For those who always thought that I am irrational, impaired and emotionally unbalanced, here is your justification. Perhaps, you were dead-on about me. I also realized recently that people who have had disgusting flare-ups at me are unequivocally reasonable. That is because I am worthy of all the animosity, the resentment and anything that thoseContinue reading “I Deserve Better”